Well now you’re here. You’ve got the matches and now you want to take the next step involved with getting these girls in bed with you. Now when it comes to meeting women in person, what you say does not matter in the slightest, there is no best opener in person. Since the only taste she has of you on Tinder at this moment is a few photos, it’s time to peak her interest enough for her to respond, remember just because she matched with you doesn’t mean she wants to sleep with you just yet. So what do you say in order for her to respond, well there’s plenty of examples of what NOT to use as an opener and I’ll even organize them for your benefit.